
Christmas always brings up so many mixed feelings for me every year.
Growing up it was always a special time of getting up early and realizing that my mom had been lying the whole month by telling me that this year I shouldn’t get my hopes up because times were tough. Regardless of what happened the year before I always believed her and expected to get nothing but a pair of socks on Christmas morning. But every time I’d be amazed at how much I received, while noticing the love in their eyes as we opened our gifts. I remember having that same feeling the year I had my first part-time job and bought Christmas gifts for everyone in my family, and then many years later when I had a son that I could shower with love, and gifts.
But now I’m a few years older (and hopefully a little wiser) and Christmas has taken on a couple black marks. Perhaps they’ve always been there, but for me they’ve been slowly creeping to a boiling point.
First, this whole putting “Christ” back in Christmas is about as mind-numbing an argument as there is out there.
• Like prayer in school, Christ is only out of something you take Him out of. Please don’t rely on schools or department stores for your faith, or proclamation thereof.
• I’m not sure Christ desires to be part of the biggest display of materialism the world has ever known. If you want Christ back in Christmas, stop buying things for people that already have enough stuff and get up at 3:00am on the day after Thanksgiving and spend all day shopping for people that don’t have anything, and can’t buy you something in return. That would do more to put Christ back in Christmas than saying Merry Christmas ever would.
• Speaking of Xmas, did you know that the “X” comes from the Greek letter Chi, which is the first letter of the Greek word Χριστός, translated as “Christ” and has been used as an abbreviation for Christ since the mid-16th century.
• More here from Los
Second, as a parent we’ve been finding ourselves stuck between a rock and a hard place. On one hand we want to bless our son with the same sort of Christmas we’ve always had, with lots of fun things under the Christmas tree. At the same time we know that A) Tanner has more than he’ll ever need already, and B) Tanner needs to shift his thinking to that of giving instead of receiving.
So how do you handle that? It’s been a constant battle for us. He’s still so young that all he would see is that his friends are getting PS3′s and he got a deck of cards. But you have to start somewhere right? Sometimes change hurts, but who wants to hurt their kids?
This year we are going to try something new. We are still going to get him some cool stuff, but in addition we are going to include a sum of money with a note that he has to buy something for someone else that doesn’t have as much as he does. A sort of Pay It Forward if you will. We’re hoping this will put giving into the forefront of his mind, as well as allowing him to see the blessing that comes from giving to others. I’m also imagining the ratio of gifts to giving to switch throughout the years. I’m pretty excited about his actually. I think it’s just the right start to get this ball rolling.
So how do you feel about the “issues” surrounding Christmas? Do you even have issues, or is it just me?
Other thoughts on Chrstmas:
• Death to Commercialized Christmas
• I Killed Santa & I’m Back At Work
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